Living with my WAW 3

[SuperDad]

Dave,

That is my new Goal , I dont want my W back if she is the same as before , I want her back if she is willing to put in the real effort needed to rebuild our M.

I completely agree, in fact this was my subtle message to her in our last convo when I said that I want to have it all! If our Ws are not willing to open up and intimately share their whole life with their Hs, why would we want to be a part of this R?

What I can't fathom is that I spent so long in such an incomplete R and that she was the one to drop the bomb!!

I know I would love the chance to work on having this kind of relationship with my W, but I am not going to go back to the way it was...not now, not ever!

SD