YoYo, I'm glad though that you seem to have some friends and can go out and do things w/ them. Also, since D's are older, you aren't tied to the house either. A lot of us have a hard time GAL'ing b/c of younger children, etc.

Start putting yourself first !! I'm not saying not to put your D's needs aside, obviously, but start thinking about yourself and what YOU can do for YOU.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10