Thanks SG. She wants to talk about the future. We were supposed to do it tonight, but she decided to stay at her parents house. No big deal, I didn't want to talk about it anyway. She went to her lawyer yesterday and now wants to talk about what we are going to do. What can she do? She doesn't have a full time job, so even though she wants to move, she can't. She can't file because she doesn't have enough for a retainer. So, I don't know what she has to say. but of course i will listen and validate.