You sound depressed. Don't let these people get to you. They have their heads up their butts. And they are only concerned about themselves. Don't take how they treated you to heart. It's unfortunate that they aren't big enough to be nice to someone who has been nice to them in the past. You have been doing a great job making improvements in yourself. It's unfortunate that they won't take the time to look.
We both keep thinking their is hope. I am ready to get off my pity band wagon and start truly working on myself, and realizing till she files, we do have a fighting chance to improve ourselves and they may come to see we are the people they want in there lives.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Vacation starts as soon as she calls me and says come pick him up.
Okay, when I was half way thru this message, my wife just called. She was in one of her better moods and asked if I plan on another trip to SD later in the summer even if for a shorter trip. I said probably, why. Her response was that she could not leave for a trip right now because of work (lie), but wish she could go but realizes it is the wrong time for us and would like to go and visit my parents later in the summer. Wonder why I go up and down in my thinking, but proves that even on my bad days, she will make a baby step forward.
Just proves to myself that I need to just work on myself and let her do her thing without worrying about it day to day. I need to stamp that on my forehead.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Thanks. I told myself last night I was going to make a list of positives today. Haven't done that yet so maybe I should. I need to keep reminding myself in all of his talk or when he's being negative he still hasn't brought up D.
I have a question. He keeps telling me that he's not supposed to be leaning on me now. Yet when he has a problem or a bad day or even the news about his new job. What does he do? Talks to me. Not someone else me. Yet he keeps talking about how we're split up and he's not supposed to. So why does he do it?
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
Okay. From this day foward I will strive to be hopeful and positive as long as divorce or being served doesn't enter the picture. (ugh this is going to be hard at first) I think I can I think I can.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
Thanks. I told myself last night I was going to make a list of positives today. Haven't done that yet so maybe I should. I need to keep reminding myself in all of his talk or when he's being negative he still hasn't brought up D. 