To often where I fall in this trap is when I sit up late at night trying to figure out what to do. I'm the type of person who works things through in my mind trying to solve problems. Unfortunately this means when the mind is racing I don't go to sleep well. What have I learned from all this thinking? Marriage relationships take a ton of work, usually those who struggle with putting in the effort question if the relationship is worth it. My conclusion is that it's not a matter of finding a better R, but in figuring out where you are going to make a stand and then finally doing it.
The answer to the final "jeopardy" questions is 10 months. Why do you ask. I'll be glad to cover more details off the radar.
