I have been reading a bit of what you have been posting to SD about your and her sitch's. I think they may be similar to mine. I am having trust problems with an H who say's he has recommitted. I am too frightened to believe it and cannot enjoy things as I think I should. I am also somewhat fixated on OW even tho' she is out of the picture. At bad moments images of H and OW come to mind.
Am I in the right area here or is this not anything to do with your sitch's. I was hoping for some advice or ideas on how to move on with the reconnection process.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength