Seriously, your wife is doing things that, she thinks, make her happy. Do something that's going to make you happy. I invited my W to take a dance lesson to see if we'd like it. It's something we always talked about doing, but with kids and the semi-cliche our life turned into, never did. She's not responded in 3 days. So, I'm going to go by myself. Currently, the thought of getting on a dance floor and shaking my ample booty terrifies me, but, can't live life waiting for our wives to come around, can we?
I'm a little more fortunate in that my wife and I have regular work hours so we have more interaction. I've started DBing while in LA -- no emails, limited calls, mostly so she can talk to our girls. I'm curious to see what the results are when I'm back home next week.
Think positive, my man. It's going to be a good 7 days for you. You'll be able to focus on yourself and mentally readjust to where you are and where your wife is without worrying if she's going to be home, sleep in your bed, somewhere else, etc. Plus, without the worry that being around someone you love causes, you might be able to hit on some good strategies for when she's back in town.
Whatever you do, don't criticize who she's confiding in. I made a reference to my wife that she was talking to her mom and she went off. My point was only, and she allowed me to make it, that it upset me that she was telling MIL how she felt and not me -- leaving me to guess. However, that's a touchy subject you want to stay away from.
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
