I had a thought. So please anyone comment if it's a bad idea.
What if you wrote out boundaries that are for YOU, nothing pointing out H, and put them on the wall in the bedroom so that you see it every day.
If H asks about it, you can say it's a reminder not to step in front of the car.
just an idea that popped in my head.
Hope this week is going better for you. I understand how scary it may be to feel like H is distancing himself when your taking care of yourself more again and your hoping the opposite should be happening. Things do take time though. Continue with your goals you have set and then take another look at things. I know it would be so much easier to just keep going at the same pace and not having to figure things out or make goals or whatever, but life isn't about standing still and there's a difficult path in front of us, but thru struggles we become stronger, and you are definitely a strong fighter!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
