In need of help II

[789]

Well if not water, it cannot be beer, I haven't had any

The kids are what ground us to reality, thankfully.

[sadhearted]

Yeah me either. Food maybe? Full moon? Weather. I know here it's cloudy and gloomy out.

No kidding! We'd probably all be locked up in a loony bin if it weren't for them. Or jail.

[789]

No kidding! We'd probably all be locked up in a loony bin if it weren't for them. Or jail.

At least we could be having fun in the loony bin.

[sadhearted]

Oh yeah party time!!! I'd love to have some fun. Haven't had any in 2 1/2-3 months.... Well non kid fun.

[789]

I agree with the kid fun. I am either at work or have him with me in the evenings. I forgot what adults do for fun sometimes.

[sadhearted]

I'm still looking for a job.... So I have kids 24/7 except every other weekend. So I have about 5 days a month without kids.

[789]

I could hire you, but it would be one long ass commute.

Because I work so many more hours than my wife, I pretty much have him anytime I am off and don't have to be at work by 6am the next morning. So it is work or spending time with him.

[sadhearted]

Where do you live? Yeah don't need a long drive with gas prices...

I've been a SAHM for 9 out of the last 10 years. Finding it hard to get a decent paying job. I can't just walk into McDonalds and afford to work there.

Yeah whereas my H walked out and has all kinds of free time with no kids. He misses them like crazy and isn't doing anything with his free time but I'm the one that was left to deal with everything. House, kids, finding a job... Not much fun in any of it.

[789]

LOL, California.

I know, just chatting today I am getting so negative about all this.
Sometimes I am jealous of these WAS, at least it appears they have no worries.

[sadhearted]

Yeah too much gas.

From where I'm sitting it looks like he has none. I know that's not entirely true. At least financially. I also know his emotions probably aren't any better then mine just from a different view point.