Character, Faith, and Patience IIII (I think!)

[sadhearted]

Yeah I don't know when you can start believing them again.

It's much easier to ignore the bad and hold onto the good.

Yeah I have no idea what my H has told people about me but I think that's just him making me out to be the bad guy and him the good one. We all know it takes 2. I'm with you if he comes back I don't care what he's told others. If you think about it if they make us out to be horrible people then take us back??? What must those people be thinking of them for taking us back?

Absolutely no sense. No sense in ripping a family apart and putting the kids thru this. We've all learned from this and want our S's to give us another chance. Problem is we can't control that. And it hurts to know that we've seen the light but may never get the chance to prove it. Just doesn't seem right.