You don't want who he is right now back: a selfish, philandering, egotist.
Maybe tell your daughter you will miss the first game. You can't subsume yourself in being the "vigilant mother."
I've heard alot about you talking to friends. Great.
But....
What is your GAL plan?
Something that will startle us.
Something that will surprise you.
Something that might, perhaps, have your husband come begging one day to be taken back. And of course, Yoyo, YOU get to choose. If he returns, he might be a new and better man. Or you may decide, it's time to end it. Either way you win.
OK -- I'm going to take a risk.
Take this with the best of intentions....
I'm eventually going to grow tired of your brave and self--sacrificing sweetness.
Trust, me I would fight a regiment of savages with a cutlass to be at your side -- you are a treasure. I'm not kidding. You are sublime and delightful and gracious and beautiful.
However....
I know that you will best heal by being a little crazy and somewhat adventurous. I would choose someone like you in a heartbeat. That's not the point, is it? You could have a dozen men proposing to you in the next 6-18 months.
