Pick up the pieces when you go

[Yoyowife]

Delia,
We've been going through this about the same amount of time. My H moved out on Oct. 23. My H is "living" at his office, but he sneaks over to OW/his secretary's house after her 8 year old son is in bed and leaves early in the morning before he awakes. Wow, what a life!

I have pretty much realized I don't want him back. I have been told by a couple of people that this isn't his first affair. Who knows?

Our husbands are sick and we can't make them better all we can do is to make ourselves better and provide a good life for our daughters.

I too have my frantic moments and then settle down. I have found it's much easier not to have any contact with him. It's easy for me to do that since our girls are older. I know it's more difficult for you to have no contact since your girls are so young, but you seem to be handling everything well.

Thanks for sharing a little bit about yourself. Hang in there.

Kim