Thanks BeingMe. I agree that it's pointless to bring up OW, and I'm so with you on the need for him to be faithful to our M and church. You are exactly correct that he's not in the right place spiritually...he seems to enjoy the 'freedom' of living just a little off the straight and narrow, KWIM? The only solution I've come up with for now is to love him and pray for both of us.
