One Foot in Front of the Other

[BeingMe]

I think you're on the right track, Aud. I don't know how else you can handle it. I think it pointless bringing up OW, and whether he's in contact with her/them. He certainly does need to dig deeper than just "I care about you, so I'll stick around". He is a father, and needs to work on taking care of the things that make his children safe and secure, and that includes being faithful to his M, and his church, IMHO.

I guess you said it right when you said to expect the best, but prepare for the worst, especially since he's been a somewhat serial cheater. I do wish he would go see the church leaders, but maybe he's not in the right place, spiritually. So, patience is the key here, and I think you have loads of that. And, just enjoying having your family together.