Don't worry. I am still thinking about the boundry thing you brought up, I am not ignoring it. Just not sure yet what I am going to do with it.
As for the moratorium, my wife never blatantly cuts me off. Since the conception of my last child (3rd) 12 years ago, ALL sex has been initiated by me. SHe rejects it probably 80-90% of the time. But ALL physical contact between the 2 of us is ALWAYS started by me. So in other words, she has not commuicated with me in over 12 years.
Oh, just another thing, the last time SHE pursued me for sex was to conceive that last child, and since then, nothing.
