Why is it the men always end up in the apartments?
Because were the suckers.
No kidding.
At this counseling session, the therapist was asking W to share some events that led her to this point. She shared some that I knew full well about. They're been engrained in her mind for YEARS. She gave her POV as to why they made her upset and how she reacted. It was eye-opening, she had never shared this particular piece of the puzzle. I then shared why I acted the way I did and she completely discounted it. I guess I can empathize more fully with how she felt now, eh? I can anyway, I know how bad it sucks to be ignored, or to feel ignored at least, I HATE IT! And I did it to the person I value the most in life. That's messed up. This D is a real shame, and could be avoided, but maybe she really will win. Maybe the next guy will listen better - he won't be as aware of her as I am now, but I burned my chance. Now someone else gets a shot at the best thing that ever happened to me, that really sucks.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
