I have to agree that, maybe if you quit doing everything for W, she would realize how much you really do and realize how good she has it.
For awhile there, before H dropped D bomb, he felt he was doing a bunch around the house to "make things easier for me" -- as in he would do things around the house while I did other things around the house and tended to the boys, etc. I also think that he was hoping that this might free up some of my time to focus on HIM. But, if you (or my H) are doing things like that, but the other person doesn't realize that's why you're doing them, the end result isn't going to be what you might want it to be. There's that mind reading thing again
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
