It would be nice if our S's really understood no one is going to benefit from a D. Just not sure how to send that message.
It doesn't matter if YOU send it, it won't be believed. I don't think she believes a word I say anymore and she doesn't want to SEE the changes, despite my sincerity. It went so long with me saying i'd do something and then didn't do it that she can't make herself believe a word I say. Unfortunately for me, I allowed a lot of anger and bitterness build up in my wife. So now, all she has are people telling her how strong she is for leaving me, how much better off she'll be, how well she's doing, etc. How do I compete with that? Well, I'll keep trying until she wants me to give up and then I get to go find an apartment!
Why is it the men always end up in the apartments?
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
