Pick up the pieces when you go

[Yoyowife]

Husband,
You sound a lot like me. I always put my children first. My feelings were that H was a big boy and he could take care of hisself. I know now that this was my shortcoming in my marriage. I needed to a good balance.

Give me a bad situation and show you some good in it. I am great at doing this for other people. I have a hard time doing it to myself

Husband

Aren't most of us like that? How does the saying go? You can't see the forest for the trees? Did I get that backwards? LOL
Seriously Husband you are such a all around great guy. Too bad your wife doesn't realize what she has. For her sake I hope she doesn't realize it to late. You are going to be fine, it will be her gigantic loss if she doesn't wake up!!!