In need of help II

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Well it is weird that he is always the one to bring it up, maybe not a bad sign.

I have, yes bad, been the one to bring us up 99% of the time, even though it is not often. She does not try to detour it, but also doesn't talk back much about it. She has not given me a sign saying she is over since she first said divorce. Her last real talk was that she was thinking and that was 2 months ago. In that time she has made the comments during different talks, "I have no plans to file for divorce", "we are not legally separated or divorced". She still invites me to dinner a couple times a week, down from a few times a week but schedules haven't been working out. She still asks me to bring the laundry. So all her actions towards me and comments aren't actually negative, not sure what they are.

My son is with me for the next week plus. He is always asking me questions and I answer. Well last night when his mom called they talked, then he always has to go out on the porch to talk to her. That is his question time, she says he does it at her place too. Well I can still hear him talk and he once again asked "mommy, is there a chance that we will all live together again?" well he kept talking and then came in all excited that his mom said "yes honey, I guess so." I know that does not mean anything, but WTF, why tell him that, why not "I don't know" something, anything but getting his hopes up over and over.