Listen carefully to your D's. You have to learn to hear what they are not saying. My W went to 1 not a typo that's ONE base ball game of my son's. A few times I had things that needed to get done and was going to just drop him off. I asked him if it was ok. His voice said yes but his eyes had the look of disapointment. The other things HAD to wait. I did not miss one game or practice. In fact I became the assistant coach because I was the only parent that showed up to every game and practice.
This is where I failed in my marriage. I would ask my wife things and she would say one thing but was hopping for something else. I cut the Mind reading class back in high school so I am not good at it.
Stay strong Yoyo. WE can't change what happened. It's over, it's history. Know your history or you will be doomed to repeat it. You do have control of the future. Give me a bad situation and show you some good in it. I am great at doing this for other people. I have a hard time doing it to myself
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know