Shades, It definitely makes sense, and thank you so much. I just posted to you on your thread. I'm sorry we never got to meet in person. You are in my prayers during this transition. Oh, I remember being so scared, on my own but all things are possible. Not to mention, your H will now see how miserable he is all on his own and that this never had anything to do with you in the first place. You created the distance, and now he will have to start facing up to reality. Thank you again for your kindness.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
