No problem, I think that we all get alittle selfish, especially when we are in the worst of it, its hard to see that anyone else is worse off then us!
I understand what you are saying about the job, but its a hard call to make, maybe someone else can jump in on this one, because I am leaning towards you maybe talking to your wife about it, if you do want to get back together then it could still impact you both. Maybe don't approach it by asking her, but say this is what you are thinking of doing, and see what response you get.
There maybe others who have a better suggestion on this.


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda