I know it sucks to know you've changed and you screwed up but your S can't seem to give you another chance. But if we stop and think about how long did they live with US not being there for them? At least that's how I'm trying to look at it. I know he's messed up several times in the past and each time I've said okay we go on from here. Now it feels like he can't do the same for me. Maybe he just needs time to get past the hurt and maybe he'll come back. I mean he does say sometimes he believes me so maybe with more time. Maybe your W just needs time to heal.
Shaking mine wouldn't do anything to wake him up. Seems to take a house fire to do that.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07