That's just it, I was taken in by her family, her mom and dad have been my mom and dad. I have bent over backwards to be their for them in any way possible. I have driven from Las Vegas to where they live to help out on a weekend. I have driven from Sacramento to where they live to help her sister and her husband to move into a new house. They all have plenty of friends and family and could have done it with out me. But who drives 4+ hours to help with mundane projects or to move, family does. That is what I did, but now because of what there daughter is doing, I am the evil one. I am the one being punished for my past. Yes the alcohol was bad, never said it wasn't. But I have never hit, molested, called names, or anything else to my wife. I was a happy drunk, I know that is no better than a pissed off drunk, but I usually had good time and fell asleep. So no, I was not their for her when I should have been. Now I am and it seems to late in everyones eyes. Maybe they are right.


M 41
W 33
S8
S17
Bomb 3/11/07
S 3/28/07
New beginning? 8/31/07