Take care of you and your son during this time. If she'll let you be there for her. If not all you can do is give her space. I know this sucks! I'm actaully having to tell myself the same thing at the moment. Nothing about our sitch is nice. All we want is our family. Hopefully one day our S's want that too.

I know what you mean about the non family support. My family is supportive but his just sit back and tell him whatever you want is fine we'll support you no matter what. UGH. Course he doesn't talk to his parents so this time around that's not an issue.

W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07