Originally Posted By: Dom, R
#1 rule: Dont move out. If he "wants out", let him leave.

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Am I kidding myself to think he'll "straighten out"? To think that he'll realize what he is giving up? Are there really, REALLY people out there who DO get back together? and remain happy?


course there are! go read the "success stories" thread at the top of MLC forum and/or some others.

You're lucky... most of the success stories are about wives eventually winning back their husbands. Not nearly as many the other way around \:\(


Thank you Dom,R- I will go and do that. \:\)


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing