Do I buy a house? What about sex?

[Dom R]

#1 rule: Dont move out. If he "wants out", let him leave.

Am I kidding myself to think he'll "straighten out"? To think that he'll realize what he is giving up? Are there really, REALLY people out there who DO get back together? and remain happy?

course there are! go read the "success stories" thread at the top of MLC forum and/or some others.

You're lucky... most of the success stories are about wives eventually winning back their husbands. Not nearly as many the other way around