Oh and - about what GD said. This is also a good time to think about what YOU need if your W does in fact recommit, and make sure you ask for it if the time comes.

(major regret of mine, as you know.. I even contemplated doing this but never quite did - I should have)

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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