Wow so you were 21 when you she was 17 when you first met? Are you her first love? That is a big deal. She now may be longing for something that she thinks she may have missed out by not dating others.
It seems to me the way she has treated you that YOU should be the WAS. How can she say that you have been smothering her when she is gone 2 to 3 weeks out of the month. She is the one who chose the profession she is in. Unbelieveable. Women can be so selfish.
