Hey Kris! If I understand right, OW's can still be bandaid's even if they marry them especially if it is economic. YUCK! That would be a marriage made in heaven <gag>. Imagine living with someone only because of their money. You definitely are better off right now.
I have no idea what my H is doing. H refuses all contact even from DD and parents. DD sent him a "Happy Father's Day" email and he didn't respond. This would have been the perfect opening to reconnect with her and he dropped it. It is so sad but it is his choice, at least he is not making things worse on my end. He is just gone!
Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.
bomb: Jan 25, 2006 not seen since DD moved in with H - 9/1/08 H filed for divorce - 11/2008 Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010 still nothing