Based on that last post of yours to fearless... I'm getting more of an understanding of your wife. Seriously, I think it might help if you posted more about your wife... in one way, she sounds a bit like Lou's wife.
You said there are times when she puts a moratorium on your sex. Does this happen often? Does she announce it, or does she wait for you to initiate before she tells you that sex is off limits for... (how long?)
I gave you a suggestion on a boundary, and what I thought you should do to get your wife's attention. I wasn't joking. I'm wondering if you considered it... if not, why not?
