Sven is saying what I would be saying also. You do need to let her know you aren't going to allow her to flaunt her affair in your presence. I told my W in no uncertain terms that she would NOT call OM or text him or e-mail him in my presence or the kids presence. If she wants her divorce, fine. But she will not disrespect me in the meantime.
That's what I mean by 'not stand for it'.
Thank you Frank and Sven for clarifying this point. Funny to have to ask for clarity on something that normally I would be so clear on.
Question for you guys/gals/peeps.
W wants to go to a mediator like right now. File and be done. If you have followed my situation, you know finances suck right now due to my injury. I waited until today to pay the mortgage, due to utilities being turned off if not paid immediately last week. W told me yesterday that we can take the money from this check, pay the attorney, filing fees, etc., and then pay the mortgage next check as it still will only be 20 days late at that point. "At least the process will have been started", W's words. W wants to get a job and "at least try to keep the house, wouldn't you want that for me and your kids?".
Happily go along? Be agreeable, cooperate with her, (without signing away my rights), be happy and agree with whatever she says?
I'm at an impasse on this one and the clock is ticking.
