Stew I am glad that the evening went well for you, it makes it easier for everyone when there is no tension. As far as your w, it wount hurt to suggest it, but don't push, because if this isn't something she wants to do then it wount help the way it should. So has to go because its what she wants. Until she gets her head on straight you are going to be living in this constant state of roller coaster! That why its important that you gal, and focus on you, because you can't control what she does, and she is going to bring you down with her, believe me I know! You are doing a great job!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!