Funny you should mention alien. It's as though the real them was kidnapped by aliens and this weird creature was left in their place. Go to http://www.midlife.com. Get 'Men in Midlife Crisis' By Jim Conway. I have personally counselled with Jim, had lunch with him in March. He has researched this 'malady' for 30 years. Maybe get involved in the chat room there. The are are many wise people there, many with restored mariages. They can help you through. You'll see me there on occasion, same screen name.
God Bless you!
David
The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith
