I know your sitch wasn't directed at me but I must admire the amount of restraint you possess! I'm not being fecicious. If I found out OM came to my house, possibly met my kids, I would be furious! I wouldn't confront him but I would be badmouthing the B$stard on this board to high heaven.
And if he is even in your car that would be a real respect problem your wife has. As it is, my W is driving around OM in the sportscar she made me buy her(2004 350Zconvertible). It pisses me off that she now won't even let me drive it!!! I'm stuck w/ the minivan! Guess how many dates I'll be getting w/ that!
Anyway, I forwarded a copy of the book STop your divorce to Husband. If he likes it maybe he can send you a copy if you want. I'm almost to the point of letting it happen if my W does want it. I'm pretty fed up w her lack of respect too! She doesn't even call my DD9 at night to say goodnight. And when my DD9 calls, she doesn't usually take the call or call back. What a B$tch huh?
ME: 39 ring on wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC son:17,11 dtr:9 mar:17yr Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old. DBing 5-19-07 My story on the link below. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470