I sent you the book via e-mail. Hope it helps you like it helped me. It even helped me get through w's A w/ OM. Now I am detached and don't need her only prefer her. Let me know what you think about it. It's only 100 pages and easy reading. The book has a lot of typos and he repeats a lot of the stories. Good reading though!
I really hope this weekend for you is a success! We are all hoping to hear good things for you and your W. I would really like to have someone in our group be a success story.
As for me, my wife is still the unsufferable B$tch. Even though, I just keep smiling and understand she is an Alien, not my W. I also understand there are millions of other beautiful women who are more than happy for a guy like me. I would just prefer my W since we've raised 3 kids.
I saw that you've used prayer for strength. I found that it has also helped me in this rough time. Reading, prayer, ears that will listen and this board are all helping me through my personal hell. Now I understand that happiness comes from with in and if my W can't find it w/ me, she won't find it w/ anyone else unless she looks inside for her happiness. Hopefully, God will help her understand this before she totally destroys our family.
I am about to get served this month for divorce. She is really serious about D and about OM. I just pray to God that they fall apart before she does some character assasination and uses the kids as pawns.
ME: 39 ring on wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC son:17,11 dtr:9 mar:17yr Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old. DBing 5-19-07 My story on the link below. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470