NSP,

Well written, It put things back in perspective, and given me the strength to continue.

You are 100% right, I have never taken the easier option in my life, and won't do it now.

Thanks mate.
AndyV

AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."