Ok, I don't think this is in DB but I keep it in my head at all times. Maybe I read it in another book. I carry myself in a manner that would beg the question, "Why in the hell is he leaving her?" I know it sounds self centered and no one knows what goes on behind closed doors but I used to carry myself in a different manner. Now, I am positive and bright. I try never to plead or cry or snoop or manipulate. I do complain, but only to a therapist or here. Complaining to friends and family is a bad idea because they would expect you to leave someone who would treat you in a certain manner. I want to model to my kids that I love life. Even if I fake it, I start to feel it. You can, too.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
