First timer Ugh!

[mkultra]

Hi jmegator. You have started on the right path. By buying the book you have found a wonderful resource. Many people go it alone or only use a therapist, some people use their friends who have been divorced, only to find some really harmful advice. I am not saying that all that advice is bad, I am just saying that many people would be put off by what your husband said to you. My H said something similar and my mom and friend were livid. They wanted to punish him. My best friend and neighbor, who are very pro marriage, were much more supportive and understanding. We are here to support you if you need. There was a time when your husband was really excited to come home to you. Remember back when that happened. If it was possible then it can be possible again. Have faith and take care of yourself.