I keep reading that I should be trying to avoid (physical) separation; I wonder if there is anyone out there who has physically separated that it worked out for??
I know of a few real people who have worked it out after separation or divorce. I also know of a few fake characters. In Woody Allen's Husbands and Wives the couple gets back together after the husband realizes his personal trainer is an idiot. He finds his estranged wife in bed with her new lover, played by hot Liam Neeson, and he needs to win her back. He begs for her while his girlfriend cries in his car. Sometimes separation makes people realize what they have lost. That has been the case for me. Now that I know what I have lost, I truly want to regain my H's trust.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."