You say you don't love me, so why would I stay with you? It's as if you collect a paycheck but don't go to work"
Brilliant! And, I think, in your case, close to the truth. Some women - maybe your wife - stay in the marriage because of fear of the financial consequences of laving, so they "use" the WAS for security while still not really working on the marriage.
Does this mean I think it's hopeless? No. BUT - I think your W will need a good dose of reality bfore she waks up, if she does.
Be calm, be kind, but move forward. Don't start dating, but it's okay to lt her wonder if you are. Don't give her any mor money than she would win in a divorce suit. Consequences.
