Hmmm... replying to my own post. Can you tell I'm new at this??? So I realized that I didn't really ask for advice or anything so here's what I'm wondering about and I would love to hear some input. I haven't fully read the books yet but I'm working on it. I saw that you use the Last-Resort Technique if you are physically seperated which we are. So do I jump straight to that or are there other things I'm supossed to try first. It is definitely scaring me that I am already in the last resort category. Seems a little hard to be hopeful when put like that.
Other info, H and I are best friends. I got the ILYBINILWY and I'm not attracted to you anymore and I feel more that you are my friend than my wife. I want to WANT to rush home to my wife everday after work....on and on. So advice would be great. Thank you wise DBers!

M:29 H:30
Married: 8 years (together 10)
6/14/07- Seperated

For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.
2 Timothy 1:7