It took me 10 months to do this to find forgiveness......worth all the soul searching I did...it released the anger with in. Then it became "safe" for my H to return.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest