It took me 10 months to do this to find forgiveness......worth all the soul searching I did...it released the anger with in. Then it became "safe" for my H to return.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest