well, the counseling session went poorly. It is very obvious she's done. Nothing went well, she wsa very guarded and distant, there was no W the way I know her. She's just TOO hurt by my not valuing her and taking her opinion seriously, and listening to her, that she can't get over it. It's understandable.

It's OK. She thinks if she gets back together with me, "I win" and she thinks if she divorces me, "She wins." So, I'm going to let her win! I've always wanted her to win, but I sincerely thought that we could win together as a family. I believe divorce is going to be a lose/lose. However, she sees it as a win, so I'll give her the win!

I'll be back to let you know how things go in court Aug 6th, maybe I can help someone else in the same situation avoid the pain I'm going through, just a little bit.

I'm really worried about my son. How do you explain this to a 4-year old?

thanks guys, many of you have been big helps to me, I appreciate it!


We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...