My wife has not made a physical move of ANY kind on me in more then 11 years. If I stop moving on her, she will be RELIEVED, not made uncomfortable. Not sure what this 180 would do.
From what I can tell from the quotes here, the stopping of sex or initiating sex for awhile is about YOU and has NOTHING to do with CAUSING your partner to do anything. THIS is not a move to get you more sex. It's a move to gain YOU power and control over yourself for awhile.
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
