I agree, W isn't in a place to hear about my love for her. Also, I won't know what it's like until i am in that situation, I hope I don't have to.
So she just called again and I kid you not "Since I have to drive more, and with winter coming, I think I should trade you the SUV for the car, what do yout think?" Just told we would talk about it.
I orginally offered it because it is "her" SUV, and while I have kept it up very nicely, it has a ton of miles and I am really doubting it will be worth it to keep past December. The car is fine, a lot newer, low miles. I didn't know winter is right around the corner, but you all should start collecting your nuts because if you play like the grasshopper all summer, you'll be left out in the cold. She drives 25 miles one way to work each day. Friends live closer to 40 miles one way. It sucks half a tank to go to friends one time. 55 bucks to fill up, she will use 2-3 tanks a week, and she can't pay bills already.
I need to get a PMA, because I'm turning into a cynic and just pissed. She needs her head back! That is my control issue though, always handling the cars, money, etc. Well you've been out two weeks and already broke. I pay your bills, groceries, everything. Maybe I need to rethink the help I'm providing and telling others how well it works.
I just figured I would buy my pick-up this winter, I can't give her the car that I know won't go for another year without major work and expense, but she will through a fit. Maybe I let her take it and let her deal with it.
