fearless:

I agree with everything you said 100%. What I said was also correct 100%. That is the way marriage is DESIGNED to work. God designed men and women to be opposites and thus to "need" each other. The strengths of men are normally the weaknesses of women, and his weaknesses are her strengths. Bring these people together and you have synergy (in theory).

So we agree basically on how men and women "communicate". What does this mean in terms of a relationship. Well, this means that the man must work hard at opening himself up, to share more, to verbally satisfy his wife. Then, the wife must understand (and most don't) that these indepth conversations are NOT what he needs. They need to get their focus completely off verbal commuication, and to focus almost exclusively on physical touch and sex (his communication). And the hardest part, it really only works SIMULTANEOUSLY (as God intended).



Last edited by cemar2; 07/11/07 08:21 PM.