Thank you Saffie, I agree with you. Being on the boards has made me realize how lucky we are that we successfully saved our marriages. So many people are in much worse situations. At first I came to get help, but I have stayed around to give advice where I think I can be helpful. I feel that my relationship with my husband is getting stronger all the time. I have stopped thinking that he thinks of her. How could he when I give him so much to fantasize about myself?
