I was checking the family e-mail account. My W has created a Match.com profile. It says that she is looking for companionship while she is going through a divorce. I heard in the bedroom talking to a man. I am trying to be patient, but it is hard. I am trying to support her through this since we have to live in the same house as she can't afford to move and i am not leaving. Where does this leave me? i know she wants a divorce and she doesn't care how i feel right now, but how do I DB through her getting emotional support from another man. Someone that is making her laugh and feel good. Doing what I can't do. how do you combat that?

i have been tempted to do the same thing, but that is what got me here in the first place. What do I do? I am trying to keep smiling. Be happy around the kids and her. She has to live here for at least six more months just to pay off her bills and save the money to move out. Then she has to file for the divorce and that is going to cost. And she doesn't have a full time job right now. i just don't know what she is thinking. And she is not willing to share it.